Yah, i cant stand it. and so i am blogging my thoughts down here. as an avenue to vent my frustrations.
U wonder whether you make the right decision. You wonder if this partnership is right. And you will question if you contribute much more than the others. But no matter what, though i understand, i cannot accept the fact that everyone is different. with a different set of thinkings, a different set of opinions, a different way of doing things.
selfish? I've tried to accomodate, i tried to give in- but nah, still wrong, not right.
For instance, a few moments ago, this is what i experienced. Again. Am i trying too hard? Why isit that some ppl out there make so much noise when you are tying ur best, for the better of a common goal. Yet, when u ask them for opinion, for their proactiveness, they are totally the opposite way round- like a tortoise.
This is where i strongly believe that a leader is a need or rather what Daniel said, there should be a boundary of the things to be done. Oh, i understand now,the need of something called the "wedding planner" (or whatever planners there are out there.)